- a coworker send this to me several months ago. I told her I would find an appropriate place to post it so that others can read.

I Believe

She is 92 years old, petite, well poised, and proud. She is fully
dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with her hair
fashionably coifed, and her makeup perfectly applied, in spite of the
fact she is legally blind.

Today, she has moved to a nursing home. Her husband of 70 years
recently passed away, making this move necessary.

After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
where I am employed, she smiled sweetly when told
her room was ready. As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I
provided a visual description of her tiny room, including
the eyelet curtains that had been hung on her window.

"I love it," she stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
just been presented with a new puppy. "Mrs. Jones,
you haven't seen the room...just wait," I said. Then she spoke these
words that I will never forget...

"That does not have anything to do with it," she gently replied.
"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time.
Whether I like my room or not, does not depend on how the furniture is
arranged. It is how I arrange my mind. I have already
decided to love it. It is a decision I make every morning when I wake
up. I have a choice. I can spend the day in bed
recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no
longer work, or I can get out of bed and be thankful for the
ones that do work. Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes still
open, I will focus on the new day and all of the happy
memories I have stored away...just for this time in my life. Old age is
like a bank account. You withdraw from what you have
already put in."

I believe - that our background and circumstances may have influenced
who we are, but we are responsible for who we
become.


I believe - that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt
you every once in a while and you must forgive them for
that.

I believe - that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want
them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all
they have.

I believe - that true friendship continues to grow, even over the
longest distance. The same goes for true love.

I believe - that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want
to be.

I believe - that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

I believe - that you can keep going, long after you can't.


I believe - that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we
feel.

I believe - that either you control your attitude, or it controls you.


I believe - that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when
it needs to be done, regardless of the
consequences.

I believe - that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I believe - that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and
have the best time.

I believe - that sometimes, the people you expect to kick you when
you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I believe - that sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be
angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I believe - that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences
you've had and what you've learned from them and
less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I believe - that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.


I believe - that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world
doesn't stop for your grief.

I believe - that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they
don't love each other. And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do.

I believe - that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It
could change your life forever.

I believe - that two people can look at the exact same thing and see
something totally different.

I believe - that your life can be changed in a matter of hours, by
people who don't even know you.


I believe - that even when you think you have no more to give, when a
friend cries out to you, you find the strength to help.

I believe - that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human
being.

I believe - that the people you care about most in life are taken from
you too soon.